Hi @Doug McMeekin ,
I also had this issue, specifically with Office 2019.
I ended up needing to activate via the automated telephone service. I followed this article (same one linked by emizhang-msft above): https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/deployoffice/vlactivation/configure-a-kms-host-computer-for-office
The phone number (for United States at least) is 866-374-2481. I actually had to un-activate a random server just to get slui.exe to show it to me. Pretty annoying.
Anyway, I called that number, said I was activating Office, and used the /dti and /atp switches of slmgr.vbs to get the installation ID and activate using the confirmation ID respectively.
It was a painful experience, but it did work on the first try. I hope this helps you.