"6": You need use to "mail.domain.com" and make sure this record point to your Exchange on-premises directly. You cannot put any service between Exchange on-premises and Exchange online.:
"7": HCW will configure free/busy for your directly. If you want to adjust it, you could manage it from this place below:
"8": Run HCW to create send/receiver connectors automatically which could make sure the mail flow between Exchange on-premises and Exchange online. After that, if you want to add third-party mail gateway, you could create send connector for it manually.
"9": Personally, in a hybrid organization. I would suggest you use Exchange online as incoming server. Exchange online provide free EOP to protect the security of mail flow. If you want a more secure configuration, you can buy a standalone EOP.
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