If you want to also use that mail flow rule to also route to a specific send connector as well, you can do that with Conditional Routing.
Note that you have to create a connector that is designed for a mail flow rule and that connector can point to a smarthost.
then once created:
For *Do the following..., choose Redirect the message to... and then specify the following connector. The select connector box appears. Choose the Outbound connector you created previously.
Otherwise, thats the only real way to force OME on messages.